Friends, connections and thinking outside the box…….

I realized something today…sometimes you’ve gotta think outside the box..literally and figuratively.

I have been totally in love with the idea of “j” because he was the first person in a long time that saw who I was and still wanted to be friends no matter what. We weren’t talking and it was kinda of an weird situation..because I thought maybe I still had a chance with him..but I know now that he is happy in his current relationship no matter what I think about her and that we still can be friends because we do have alot in common and he wants me to be happy.

But I met someone online today..and here is where thinking outside the box comes into play..I met someone that lives in Massachusetts and maybe we live really far apart (me being here in California) but that really doesn’t mean anything if there is a true connection between two people because if there is then we can work it out..plus he said something about not liking the cold..

and in the end of all things lately..it means I’m moving on and forward..and that “j” and I will always be friends no matter what happens..because really we all need friends we can trust and ask advice about the opposite sex and hang out with and just be.